Okay so now you have an idea of what she wants. You think to yourself, how the hell can I afford this and what does it actually mean? These are typical questions guys ask themselves. Do not be intimidated by the process. First, educate yourself. There is a standard system in place called the 4cs for you to get a handle on what you are looking for in a diamond. On our website you will find this guide. The 4 cs are cut, clarity, color, clarity and carat weight. Since diamonds are a completely natural product there is a grading system in place to determine a stone’s value. By learning what you should expect it will help you prioritize what attributes of the diamond are the most important to you. It’s similar to buying a car. You would research all the features then decide which you really care about and which don’t make as much difference to you.